Welcome to TAG - Est. 2016
Embracing Kink Together
Our Community
The Aphrodite Group is a bold, one-of-a-kind, woman-owned, members-only BDSM and kink community that's been empowering people right here in Rochester, New York since 2016—and let me tell you, it's extraordinary!
We’ve built this space with zero tolerance for shame or stigma. This is where you get to show up fully, explore your deepest interests, and own every part of who you are. We hold ourselves—and every single person here—to the highest standards: unwavering respect, complete kink acceptance, ironclad consent in every interaction, and privacy & discretion that you can truly count on. Because real power comes from feeling safe enough to unleash it!
At TAG, we deliver the experiences that light you up: electrifying weekly gatherings, transformative monthly workshops, and exciting off-site meet-and-greets. This is more than events—it's a vibrant, supportive community where you connect on a real level, learn powerful skills, grow without limits, and walk your path of self-discovery together in the BDSM world.
You're not just joining a group; you're stepping into a movement that celebrates your strength! Ready to step in? Head to our Events tab and join one of our exclusive vetting socials—that’s your powerful first move. Once you’re vetted and part of TAG we can’t wait to see you there, shining, claiming your space, and living unapologetically!
Dream it. Believe it. Achieve it—right here with us.
With unstoppable energy and total support,
The Aphrodite Group
(Your gateway to fearless self-expression!)
Your Hosts
TAG Team
Chrissy
I'm Chrissy, the founding heartbeat of The Aphrodite Group and now its proud owner. I've been lighting up the Rochester kink scene since 2009, pouring every ounce of vision, passion, and community magic into building something extraordinary.
I also own Whispers of Kink FemDomme House, while stepping up as Head Mistress for those legendary KINK UNLIMITED Hotel Takeover events.
Yes, I wear a lot of crowns—and I wear them well!
Current Roles :
⛓️Professional Dominatrix — Blending skill, intuition, and just the right touch of sparkle to create unforgettable experiences.
🗣️Communication Director — Keeping our community connected, informed, and supported with clarity and kindness.
🎉Event Organizer — Designing immersive, high-energy events filled with connection, laughter, and lasting memories.
📚 Educational Facilitator — Sharing knowledge, encouraging growth, and helping everyone explore at their own pace .
👠Owner of Whispers of Kink — Supporting Rochester’s fabulous FemDommes with confidence, style, and heart .
✨Owner of TAG – The Aphrodite Group — Leading this woman-owned gem with dedication, care, and a whole lot of shine .
Miss Charlotte Mae
✨Meet Miss Charlotte Mae (or just Char, because she’s that approachable and awesome 💖)
Char first sparkled her way into The Aphrodite Group around 2018, stepping in as Chrissy’s submissive — and oh my goodness, what a beautiful glow-up since then 🌸.
Identifying as bi-gendered 🏳️⚧️, Char has blossomed into one of the most confident, warm, and truly dynamic souls in our entire community 🌟
Over the years, Char has joyfully stepped into so many special roles, lighting up every space she touches:
🕯️ Space Coordinator — Bringing calm, magical flow and making every room feel balanced, welcoming, and just right.
🌈LGBTQ+ Advocate — Championing visibility, inclusion, and everyone showing up as their full, authentic self.
🛡️Security Team Member — Offering steady, gentle protection with the kindest, most watchful eyes.
🎧A/V Specialist — Working magic behind the scenes with lights, sound, and smooth, seamless experiences.
🖤Dungeon Master — Guiding scenes with creativity, rock-solid safety, and just the right dash of playful mischief.
Char is living proof that growth, kindness 💕, and fierce authenticity can go hand in hand. She helps make TAG feel like the safe, fun, welcoming home we all cherish .
Our Philosophy :
"You create community. TAG makes it epic."
"Ignite. Connect. Own It – That's the TAG Way!"