Welcome to TAG - Est. 2016
Embracing Kink Together
Our Community
The Aphrodite Group is a unique woman owned members-only BDSM and KINK community operating in Rochester, New York since 2016.
We pride ourselves on creating a positive space for individuals to explore their interests without shame or stigma. We have high expectations of respectful behavior, kink tolerance, and consent-based interactions, where privacy is honored and discretion is paramount.
TAG hosts weekly gatherings, monthly workshops, and off-site meet and greets, fostering a supportive environment where members can connect, learn, and grow together in their journeys of self-discovery within the BDSM community.
To become a member of TAG you must first attend one of our vetting socials listed in the events tab. Once you become a vetted member, we look forward to you attending our events held in our sexy, downtown Penthouse.
Your Hosts
TAG Team
Chrissy
A founding member of TAG and now its owner, Chrissy has been an influential presence in the Rochester kink scene since 2009. Instrumental in launching TAG and growing its membership, Chrissy not only owns TAG, but is also the owner of Whispers of Kink and serves as the Head Mistress of KINK UNLIMITED Hotel Takeover events as well. With vision, passion, and a talent for community-building, she continues to shape and elevate the local kink landscape.
Current Roles:
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🔗 Professional Dominatrix — Blending skill, intuition, and commanding presence
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🗣️ Communication Director — Giving voice, clarity, and direction to the community
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🎉 Event Organizer — Crafting immersive, memorable experiences with intention
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📜 Educational Facilitator — Empowering others through knowledge and guided growth
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👑 Owner of TAG – The Aphrodite Group — Leading with strength, heart, and fierce dedication
Miss Charlotte Mae
Miss Charlotte Mae—known affectionately as Char—first stepped into the TAG scene around 2018. Identifying as bi-gendered, Char began this journey as Chrissy’s submissive and has since grown into a confident, dynamic presence within the community. Over the years, Char has embraced a wide range of meaningful roles, including:
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✨ Space Coordinator — Bringing calm, flow, and a touch of magic to every room
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🏳️🌈 LGBTQ+ Advocate — Championing visibility, inclusion, and authentic expression
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🛡️ Security Team Member — Providing steady protection with a warm, watchful presence
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🎚️ A/V Specialist — Mastering lights, sound, and smooth operations behind the scenes
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🐉 Dungeon Master — Guiding play with creativity, safety, and a spark of playful mischief
Our Philosophy - TAG members create community. TAG the organization, fosters a positive space to make it happen.